*Chastity ( let go of sensuality, sexuality, lust): Through personal resolve or will power alone, it is possible to be celibate for some years. During these years it is necessary to enter jhana to develop wisdom that will permanently uproot the defilement of lust. Without jhana and wisdom, the underlying tendency to lust will arise when the condition is right. The desire to disrobe and get marry may come up .
1. "Birth is suffering; aging is suffering; sickness is
suffering; death is suffering; sorrow, lamentation, pain, grief and
despair are suffering; not to obtain what one wants is suffering; in
short, the five aggregates affected by clinging/ attachment are suffering. This is
2. "And what is the origin of suffering? It is craving, which
brings renewal of being, is accompanied by delight and lust, and
delights in this and that; that ...